How to start a conversation

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                 4 Great Conversation Starters
SMALL TALKS....The key to managing the act of conversing with new people. Small talk is a critical component of interpersonal interaction. Like it or not , we need small talks . To make it more interactive we are gonna relate small talks to a BOXING MATCH . When u meet somebody new you just dont go in there with an 'uppercut' . You dont tell them about your 'therapy sessions' or your working or crazy thoughts going inside your mind ....NOO...Thats like 3rd conversation . You have to feel him/her out like a boxer. YEAH..what do they do initially?..They dance...Throw a little jabs here and there . They are not gonna knockout each other in the begining itself , but they are peppering .
You are peppering them with punches , metaphorically speaking. Conversations are the same way you gotta dance first and small talks is the non-violent equivalent of peppering them with punches . So as this incredibly efffective example shows you how u need to do it. And today i thought I will share with you my four favorite conversation starters. The idea is that if you got your 4 conversation starters you will always have something to say , you will never be nervous . LETS ROLLL.........
Now the most conversation starters for 'DUDES' is ' What you do for a living?' and this is okay...If thats yours then its fine , but one which I think that is better and is gonna automatically recieved better is ' SO WHEN YOU ARE NOT WORKING , WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?'...Hobbies...This is what we are talking about ..yeaahh everybody loves talking abou their hobbies and passion ..Is it golf , water skiing , working out or whatever , people love talking about their hobbies all day long and they get excited doing it and eventually they are gonna reciprocate the question and they are gonna ask you what u do in your free time . And this is the oppurtunity to tell them about yourself and you are free to tell them because this is something you are not gonna hesitate about. You are never gonna struggle if you talk about what you like doing. My #2 question is ' HOW IS YOUR DAY GOING?', a solid question. But they can always reply briefly like 'fine' and you can move to the QUESTION #3 which is 'GOT ANY PLANS THIS WEEKEND?' . Now hopefully with these two(#2 and #3) you are gonna get some type of reaction response or engagement . If not then its high time to find someone else cuz that person SUCKS!!! And my 4th and quite possibly favorite way to start a small talk or a conversation is to LEAD WITH A COMPLIMENT ...Who doesnt like a compliment?..Now here is the interesting about giving a compliments is that I would say that the only thing really appropriate about complimenting them is WHAT ARE THEY ACTUALLY WEARING..Anything else would probably be awkward and might be taken in the wrong sense. But now hopefully you have 4 great conversation starters 

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