How to flirt without being creepy..!!?

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                                                               FLIRT GAME ONNN!!!!!!



Gentlemen , I am Dhananjay Dhawan from Being El Macho and today we are hooking up all the single dudes up cuz today its all about FLIRRTINGGG..!! How to do it without being creepy? Cuz there is a fine line between coming across as charming and cute and looking like a guy that will ultimately will be rifling through their underwear drawer searching for something to sniff . Alright ...Flirting , now we are start by discussing flirting from a real world perspective meaning you are actually flirting in person and not technology based .



Lets get rolling.......So there you are minding your own business , maybe a coffee shop , maybe at school  , maybe at work or somewhere else , it doesnt matter . The fact is all of the ssudden you spot her , a vision of angelic beauty or  . The fact is they are hot and you wanna make their acquaintance . Now most people would think the first step in flirting is ' MAKING EYE CONTACT' ....personally  I think THAT'S #2 ..STEP #1 - Look at their hand and see they are wearing a ring . If they are , move on captain that ship has sailed but dont sweat it cuz in another few minutes a new ship will ariive at the dock . Okay , so they dont have a ring...CHECK!! Now it is time to make eye contact . Essentially you would like to get caught checking them out , this means GLANCE IN THEIR DIRECTION REPEATEDLY until you catch their eye . Dont just stare ...that is creepy and people can tell when they are being stared at . Subtle , little glances nut be ready cuz once you catch their gaze ..a little smirk , a head nod aand then look away , go back to work or your mind your business and then GLANCE AGAIN ...when you catch their eye again though , this is the time gentlemen to SMILE....larger smile ..Smile like..' haha..u caught me..how funny :p '...That is a green light for GAME ON!!! It is time for you to make the next move playboy, be BOLD. Go up and introduce yourself , get up and confidently walk over . Not too fast , not too slow , not a gangsta limp ...simply walk and introduce yourself and say hello . Now at this point you are probably feeling something like passing out and throwing up all the same time and this is normal . But people do get in there in like ' uhhhhh ummmm '...and they freeze and their mind goes blank . So , one of the keys of being successful in flirting as well as small talks is ' BEING PREPARED PRIOR TO THE APPROACH' . You need to be prepared with your follow up statement or question , if not then you are gonna stand their looking weird . The way I see , there is no better follow up than giving a COMPLIMENT . Gentlemen, when you are giving someone a compliment regardless of who it is to you , you are automatically going to be received better . Be brave ,be bold , you go up to them and give a compliment and while doing that u gotta LOOK IN THE EYE , dont be looking around . But under no circumstances this complement should be sexual in nature . Alright , so the conversation is going now , you have complimented , you have approached , you have shown CONFIDENCE which is in itself is incredibly SEXY and sets you apart from 99% of the other dudes . So the conversation is rolling.. the key now is NOT TO WEAR OUT YOUR WELCOME AND KNOW YOUR EXIT . Now , if you are going to see this person again , if it is a classmate , a co-worker or gym , end up the conversation and pick it up next time . But  if you are not sure you are ever gonna see this person again and you dont wanna test fate then it is time gentlemen to pull up your big boy panties up and ASK THEM FOR THE NUMBER . Gentlemen , what is the worst thing that can happen out of this interaction? They say no , if they do or they are hesitant then , simply be courteous  and exit stage . Say ' Okay , well I understand , it was great meeting you anyway I hope you have a great day ' and leave. Live to flirt another day , dont keep trying selling yrself cuz only thing less sexy than someone insecure is someone being desperate . 

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